What to do? Small things and big things.

I was sitting in the church office in St. Andrew’s House (where I also live) updating the church’s computer. The office used to be one of the rooms for the doorman when the building was the monastic house of the Cowley Fathers (Society of St. John the Evangelist), and so is right at the main entrance.
The children’s choir was practicing upstairs in the library and doing quite a good job. Soon, they stared bounding down the stairs. Two guys, around 11 years of age, good kids, came down first by themselves and I heard, “something something something, ‘damn’, something something something…”
Now, I know in comparison to students being shot to death hearing the word, “damn,” coming from an 11 year olds lips is quite minor. Yet, I stopped them as they neared the main door and said something like, “What did I hear?” They looked at me all quizzically like, and said, “huh?” I then added, “what was this about something something something, ‘damn’ something something?” They then dismissed me, continued talking to one another, and walked out.
Now, being dismissed for calling them on swearing doesn’t surprise me or really bother me. I understand it, but this minor incident does bring up a couple things.
First, why bother with such seemingly minor stuff?
When I was working as a missionary to college students in Europe, primarily in Munich, Germany, the family I lived with had a son around 5 years of age. He used to get all over me when I would say words like “shoot” or “dang” or some seemingly innocuous nothing word. His mom didn’t allow him to swear. Now, I thought this was a bit extreme, until she told me why even those words were out of bounds for her children. Do you know why they were out of bounds?
As the mom said, “There are so many very good and precise English words that can be used to express what you are thinking or feelings. I want my kids to use real words and not just filler words.” I like that. So, calling the kids on using a word like “damn” is to call them, at least from my perspective, to use real words – to be smart.
Secondly, many of the kids use swear words because they think it is “adult.” Now, in New York the “F-bomb” if an average New Yorker’s, “ah.” Saying “damn” is minor, yet it is something. If the kids yield to peer pressure and the belief that they will be more “something” if they use these words, smoke this stuff, do these things – which are all generally negative and play into their own natural rebelliousness – what is it leading them towards? Maturity? A strong and positive sense of self? True humility and right pride? Compassion? Strength? Intelligence? Self-control? I don’t think it leads to any of these things, but more towards insecurity, an expression of self that is ultimately personally and collectively destructive, and a form of bondage to what others demand that they be.
Incidentally, as adults, we have a responsibility to be an example for them that demonstrates the best of human potential, that which elevates the society to greater forms of civility, of positive expression, and altruism, not to banality and base, purulent behavior.
The question is how best to discourage what is not productive and not beautiful or not good, and how best to encourage the pursuit of the beautiful and the good – for Christians, to love God with all our being and to love our neighbor as ourselves. Calling them on such things is part of it, but as they dismissed me in my lame attempt to be funny and corrective at the same time, sometimes the way we do just doesn’t work. Sadly, sometimes our example compounds the problem.
Perhaps I could have been more direct with less of an attempt to soften the chastisement (which I admit came from a place of insecurity on my part). Instead, perhaps I should have called them on it seriously and with authority and with explanation of why those kinds of words are inappropriate – be smart, don’t give in to peer pressure, let the words that come from your mouth be honoring to God, have a secure sense of self and recognize that growing up and being adult doesn’t been you have to incorporate into yourselves the worst of our humanity. Who knows?
You think this all a bit much to hang on a four-letter word? Mayor Giuliani demonstrated to New Yorker’s that if you focus on the small things, the big things tend to take care of themselves. Even his worst political opponents give him credit for that.
These are small things, but the more we call kids to grow into their better selves in the small things, I think the more we enable the big things to take care of themselves.

The threefold rule

From a review of the Anglican Brevery, by Addison H. Hart in Touchstone.

” My own sincere belief in the importance of the Daily Office was influenced by, among others, the late Anglican spiritual writer, Martin Thornton, whose books (in particular, Pastoral Theology: A Reorientation; Christian Proficiency; and English Spirituality) made a convincing case that the classical shape of a sound Christian piety is the regular (regular in the sense of a “rule of life”) commitment to the three essentials: Eucharist, Private Devotion, and the Daily Offices. If one practices this “threefold rule,” he will be adequately nourished, inwardly transformed, and possess the right God-given balance of objective and subjective elements in his spiritual life. Such a rule is as old as the faith itself.
Of the three ingredients, the Daily Office—praying the Psalms and listening to the Word—has the distinction of standing objectively above and beyond ourselves and our worst tendencies to become emotionally self-serving in prayer, a condition to which many subjective and often sentimental “devotions” lead. Rather, the Office lifts us up to the ongoing prayer of the Church, addressing us with authority even as we address the Lord. Its beauty and benefit to us is its very objectivity.”

Good comments from the ABC Rowan Williams in Canada

The Archbishop of Canterbury gave a very good lecture to seminary students in Canada. He lectured on the Church’s dealings with Scripture – it seems a fair and evenhanded treatment and a good corrective.
From the Archbishop’s 16th April 2007 Larkin Stuart Lecture, Toronto, Canada, entitled,

‘The Bible Today: Reading & Hearing’

“Popular appeals to the obvious leave us battling in the dark; and the obvious – not surprisingly – looks radically different to different people. For many, it is obvious that a claim to the effect that Scripture is ‘God’s Word written’ implies a particular set of beliefs about the Bible’s inerrancy. For others, it is equally obvious that, if you are not that savage and menacing beast called a ‘fundamentalist’, you are bound to see the Bible as a text of its time, instructive, even sporadically inspiring, but subject to rethinking in the light of our more advanced position. As I hope will become evident, I regard such positions as examples of the rootlessness that afflicts our use of the Bible; and I hope that these reflections may suggest a few ways of reconnecting with a more serious theological grasp of the Church’s relation with Scripture.”

Read the entire lecture.
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From the, From the Anglican Journal, Anglican Church of Canada:
Williams bemoans loss of listening to Scripture
Marites N. Sison, staff writer
Apr 17, 2007
The Archbishop of Canterbury Rowan Williams has lamented what he called the lack of “rootedness” in the Anglican approach to Scripture and said “we’ve lost quite a bit of what was once a rather good Anglican practice of reading the Bible in the tradition of interpretation.”
He added: “We read the Bible less in worship. We understand and know it less…(we’re) either underrating it or misrating it, making it carry more than it’s meant to, as Richard Hooker says … We don’t have a very clear sense that we’re reading the Bible in company with its readers from the centuries and indeed, at the present moment.” Archbishop Williams made the observation in response to a comment about a seeming lack of theological tradition among Anglicans, following a Larkin-Stuart lecture delivered April 16 before an audience of mostly theology students from Wycliffe and Trinity Colleges in Toronto.
Archbishop Williams also said that he wished the current debate on sexuality that has bitterly divided the Anglican Communion would be framed in terms of “biblical justice and biblical holiness” instead of the prevailing conservative view of “biblical fidelity” and the liberal view of justice.
“I share the unease about simply opposing biblical fidelity and secular justice,” he said, adding that what was needed was a “proper theological discussion” of the issue.
In his lecture (named after Canon Cecil Stuart, long-time rector of Toronto’s St. Thomas’ Church, and its benefactor, Gerald Larkin), Archbishop Williams examined the current practice of reading the Bible and said Christians need to be reminded that, “before Scripture is read in private, it is heard in public.”
Those who assume that the typical image of Scripture reading is a solitary individual poring over a bound volume should remember that for most Christians throughout the ages and in the world at present the norm is listening, said Archbishop Williams. This, he said, “underlines the fact that the church’s public use of the Bible represents the church as defined in some important way of listening: the community when it comes together doesn’t only break bread and reflect together and intercede, it silences itself to hear something.”
Archbishop Williams also described the “fragmentary reading” of the Bible as “highly risky,” citing as an example Saint Paul’s use of same-sex relationships (Romans 1:27) as “an illustration of human depravity – along with other ‘unnatural’ behaviours such as scandal, disobedience to parents and lack of pity.”
He said: “What is Paul’s argument? And, once again, what is the movement that the text is seeking to facilitate? The answer is in the opening of chapter 2: we have been listing examples of the barefaced perversity of those who cannot see the requirement of the natural order in front of their noses; well, it is precisely the same perversity that affects those who have received the revelation of God and persist in self-seeking and self-deceit. The change envisaged is from confidence in having received divine revelation to an awareness of universal human sinfulness and need.”
There is a paradox in reading that Scriptural passage “as a foundation for identifying in others a level of sin that is not found in the chosen community, “ Archbishop Williams said, adding that this “gives little comfort to either party in the current culture wars in the church.”
It is “not helpful for a ‘liberal’ or revisionist case, since the whole point of Paul’s rhetorical gambit is that everyone in his imagined readership agrees in thinking the same-sex relations of the culture around them to be obviously immoral as idol-worship or disobedience to parents,” he said. “It is not very helpful to the conservative either, though, because Paul insists on shifting the focus away from the objects of moral disapprobation in chapter 1 to the reading/hearing subject who has been up to this point happily identifying with Paul’s castigation of somebody else.”
Archbishop Williams said the point he is making “is not that the reading I propose settles a controversy or changes a substantive interpretation, but that many current ways of reading miss the actual direction of the passage and so undermine a proper theological approach to Scripture.”
Before his lecture, the Archbishop of Canterbury received honorary doctor of divinity degrees from Wycliffe College and Trinity College during a joint convocation.

I’m a Justin Martyr

You’re St. Justin Martyr!

You have a positive and hopeful attitude toward the world. You think that nature, history, and even the pagan philosophers were often guided by God in preparation for the Advent of the Christ. You find “seeds of the Word” in unexpected places. You’re patient and willing to explain the faith to unbelievers.

Find out which Church Father you are at The Way of the Fathers!

Google, funny

The people at Google have a sense of humor with otherwise dry and technical stuff, like directions:
Take 60 seconds to do this:
1. go to www.google.com
2. click on “maps”
3. click on “get directions”
4. type “New York, NY” in the first box (the “from” box)
5. type “London, England” in the second box (the “to” box)
(hit get directions)
6. scroll down to step #23

Virginia Tech

I really can’t bring myself to write much about the shootings in Blacksburg, VA – at Virginia Tech.
While working with students in Chi Alpha at Kent State, I went down to Virginia Tech a few times for Spring Break outreach. This was years ago, but the connection is still present.
After all my years working with students, I find this kind of happening so terribly troubling. For Virginia Tech, this will be their Kent State. I know how the shootings at Kent so many years ago remains in the very place of Kent. It will remain in and through and at Virginia for its continued history.
What can be said? Just pray for those who have died, for their family and friends, for the family of the shooter, and for the community of Virginia Tech.

Praise the Lord O My Soul (Greek Chant)

I cannot get over the performance of “Praise the Lord O My Soul (Greek Chant)” from Rachmaninov’s “Vespers” by the USSR Ministry of Culture. I’ve written about the female soloist before (can’t remember her name, now). I get chills every time I listen to it – over and over again.
I can’t get away from this.

Old Jewish proverb

Steve Greenburg, an Orthodox Rabbi and a senior educator at the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership in New York, spoke Monday at the College of Charleston on homosexuality in the Jewish tradition.
The “Charleston Post & Courier” ran an article about the lecture, and here is a few paragraphs where Greenburg tells an ancient Jewish

That two-way street illustrates a distinguishing characteristic of the Jewish faith: “God so loved us, He gave us Torah,” he said. He gave Jews the Book, and it is up to man to read it, learn it, interpret its meanings and apply its lessons.
“There is no such thing as (biblical) literalism,” Greenberg said. “Language is simply too slippery. Of course, that was understood from the beginning.”
To illustrate the point, Greenberg recounts an old Jewish proverb:
Three rabbis are arguing about the best method to purify an oven. One insists it’s already pure, the others – a majority – say it’s impure. But the dissenting rabbi is undeterred. In an attempt to prove he’s right, he calls on God for help.
The oven is pure as the aqueduct flows backward, he declares. And with a rumble, the aqueduct flows backward.
That’s no proof, say the other two, ignoring God’s intervention.
The oven is pure just as this tree uproots itself! Sure enough, the tree tears itself from the ground.
That’s no proof, say the other two.
So the dissenting rabbi calls on God one last time: “Send down a voice from heaven to tell my brethren the truth!”
And God, in a booming voice, speaks of the purified oven.
Even this is insufficient to appease the two rabbis, for purification is addressed clearly in the Torah: Divine revelation, then, is accomplished in the house of study, with an eye bent on the book, not turned to heaven.
When the dissenting rabbi tells God what has transpired, God laughs. “My children have defeated me!”
With this anecdote, Greenberg argues for the “rich possibilities” of sacred texts. Nothing is black and white, he said, nothing so austere that mankind can afford to forgo argument and exploration.

I truly desire to better understand the way Jews approach, interact with, understand, and apply the Torah (and all the Law and the Prophets). This will, or should, speak volumes to us as Christians as we approach, interact with, understand, and apply the Old Testament and all of the Bible.
via: Titusonenine

The Duke University incident

The Duke university sex scandal had nearly come to an end. It wasn’t pretty. One of the Lacrosse students, Reade Segilmann, issued a statement. Perhaps, despite everything that was so wrong about the whole incident, something good will come of it. If the students and everyone else involved will be able to come away from this with the same kind of attitude as Segilmann’s, perhaps redemption is possible.
From Segilmann’s statement:

This entire experience has opened my eyes up to a tragic world of injustice I never knew existed. If it is possible for law enforcement officials to systematically railroad us with no evidence whatsoever, it is frightening to think what they could do to those who do not to have the resources to defend themselves. So rather than relying on disparaging stereotypes, or creating political and racial conflicts, we must all take a step back from this case and learn from it. This tragedy has revealed that our society has lost site of the core principle of our legal system, the presumption of innocence.
For everyone who chose to speak out against us before the facts were known, I sincerely hope that you are never put in a position where you experience the same pain and heartache that you have caused our families. While your hurtful words and outrageous lies will forever be associated with this tragedy, everyone will always remember that we told the truth, and in the words of Abraham Lincoln, “truth is the best vindication against slander‘. If our case can bring to light the some of the flaws in our judicial system as well as discourage people from rushing to judgment, than the hardships we have endured over this past year will not have been in vain.
As the healing process begins for our families, I feel as though it is my responsibility to create something positive out of this experience. During my time away from school I got the chance to learn a lot about myself: Who I am and who I want to be. This case has shown me what the important things in life really are as my entire perspective on the world has changed. I view this situation as a unique opportunity to make a difference and I know that there are many people who can benefit from the lessons I have learned.
I fully intend on continuing my education and look forward to pursuing the goals I have set for myself. I have the deepest appreciation for my educational and athletic opportunities and my dream is to return to both by this fall. My ultimate aspiration moving forward, is to live a life that will make all of those who stood by my side throughout this injustice, proud to know that they defended the truth.