{"id":46,"date":"2002-06-28T08:51:09","date_gmt":"2002-06-28T08:51:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/?p=46"},"modified":"2002-06-28T08:51:09","modified_gmt":"2002-06-28T08:51:09","slug":"last_saturday_at_tinas_for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/?p=46","title":{"rendered":"Last Saturday, at Tina&#8217;s for"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday, at Tina&#8217;s for breakfast, with all the guys after our morning run, FrontRunners, I noticed an older women sitting at the table by the window.  Her back was to the window.  She ordered the same thing I did&#8230; chicken salad.  They always give customers way too much stuff on the sandwiches at Tina&#8217;s!  The place was busy, as usual.  It isn&#8217;t a very big restaurant &#8211; owned by a local family, a very nice and fun family of Lebanese derivation, who always treat us gay boys very well.  One time, a bit-off women came in and demand to remain at a table they were preparing for us &#8211; she just kind of pushed through and sat down, not waiting her turn.  She wouldn&#8217;t leave.  They called the police.  She yelled and screamed that they were discriminating against her (she was white, by the way).  She told the police how dare they give a table to those fags, those freaks of nature, those immoral perverts.  The police took her away.<br \/>\nWhere was I?  This women was probably in her 70&#8217;s, I suspect.  She was by herself, but didn&#8217;t seem lonely at all.  She was beautiful with her smart summer outfit, completely white hair fixed just so but not in a fastidious way, just enough make-up to complement her face.  She reminded me so much of my grandmother.  I just watched her as she ate her meal, as she watched what was going on around her.  Of course, she couldn&#8217;t finish the whole sandwich, and neither could I.  She asked for a to-go container.  I wanted to go up to her and tell her how pretty she was and that she reminded me so much of my grandmother, but I got involved with conversation with the guys and before I knew it she was up and leaving the restaurant.<br \/>\nNow, I think of my grandmother and how grand she is.  I think of how pretty she is at 80 years old and how she loves to dress, and how she does very well.  I&#8217;ve seen a number of people over the years who remind me of my grandmother.  I&#8217;ve told a couple of them, but their responses where kind of cool.  Maybe saying something like that isn&#8217;t too cool.  Anyway, I think about my grandmother and think how I&#8217;m not the best of grandsons.  I don&#8217;t call her or write nearly as often as I should, nearly as often as I think of her.  I wish she knew how much I do think of her, how much I love her.  I wish I could discipline myself enough to write or call and tell her.  She just got an e-mail account.  I think I will e-mail her and tell her.<br \/>\ncomments?  <a href=\"mailto:bob@hypersync.net\" title=\"e-mail me\">e-mail me<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday, at Tina&#8217;s for breakfast, with all the guys after our morning run, FrontRunners, I noticed an older women sitting at the table by the window. Her back was to the window. She ordered the same thing I did&#8230; &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/?p=46\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=46"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=46"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=46"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=46"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}