{"id":1049,"date":"2007-05-19T08:11:35","date_gmt":"2007-05-19T08:11:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/?p=1049"},"modified":"2007-05-19T08:11:35","modified_gmt":"2007-05-19T08:11:35","slug":"they_will_know_us_by_how_we_lo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hypersync.net\/wordpress\/?p=1049","title":{"rendered":"They will know us by how we love one another!"},"content":{"rendered":"

The ending portion of a letter from Bishop Howe of the Diocese of Central Florida to his clergy, entitled, What Next?<\/a><\/em><\/strong>
\nIt is an important message to hear during times of trouble when our tendency is to want resolutions now, because life is too stressful to wait, wait, and to wait some more. Yet, God tends to say to us – “be patient; be still and know that I am the Lord.”
\nHere is a portion of Bishop Howe’s letter:<\/p>\n

\nI met with our clergy during Holy Week, and I told them (yet again) that I am committed to remaining both an Episcopalian and an Anglican as long as it is possible to do so. But ultimately, all of us may have to make choices. We will not all make the same choices, and we will not all make them at the same time. What is imperative is how we treat each other.
\n\u00e2\u20ac\u0153By this will everyone know that you are my disciples,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d our Lord declared, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153if you have love for one another.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d
\nIt is not by all the sermons we preach, not by all the books we publish, not by the cathedrals we build, the missionaries we send out, the bold actions we take, or even the purity of our doctrine, but it is by the quality of our relationships with others who name the name of Christ that we will prove we truly belong to him.
\nWe reflected together on what it means to \u00e2\u20ac\u0153love one another,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and I suggested we use as a template the great \u00e2\u20ac\u0153love chapter,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d 1 Corinthians 13, and I shared four reflections with the clergy that I want to repeat today.
\n1) There is not a single \u00e2\u20ac\u0153feelings\u00e2\u20ac\u009d word in all of 1 Corinthians 13. The kind of agape love that Jesus calls us to, and that St. Paul attempts to describe, is entirely a matter of attitude and behavior; it is a matter of choice. I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t have to feel a certain way toward you; I have to behave a certain way toward you. (There are a lot of feelings in eros; there are none in agape.)
\n2) The \u00e2\u20ac\u0153love chapter\u00e2\u20ac\u009d is a remarkable description of the Lord Jesus himself. You can actually substitute his name every time Paul uses the word \u00e2\u20ac\u0153love.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d (\u00e2\u20ac\u0153Jesus is patient; Jesus is kind; Jesus is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. Jesus does not insist on his own way; he is not irritable or resentful; he does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. Jesus bears all things, believes all things, hope all things, endures all things.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d) The corollary is that when I run out of my own supply of agape love for you, I can ask Jesus to love you through me!
\n3) There are sixteen synonyms or synonymous phrases in the chapter, and nine out of the sixteen are negative: Love is NOT envious, boastful, arrogant, rude, irritable, resentful; it does NOT insist on its own way or rejoice in wrongdoing, and it never ends. Evidently, then, there are things I need to work on NOT doing toward you.
\n4) Notice how many of the synonyms are also synonyms for patience (or heavily dependent on it). You cannot be kind without being patient. You cannot bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things, without being patient. By my count at least eight of the sixteen words or phrases are synonymous with patience \u00e2\u20ac\u201c which is to say that extending agape love toward someone is at least half a matter of being patient with him or her. The old phrased, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Please be patient, God isn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t finished with me,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d is really a plea for an expression of Jesus\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 agape love from each other!
\nI suggested that it is no accident that patience is the first word on the list; it is like getting the top button of your shirt right; if you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t all the other buttons will be wrong, as well.
\nSo, I say to you, as I said to the clergy: please be patient. Let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s trust the Lord. Let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s see what comes out of the meetings of the \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Windsor Bishops\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and the House of Bishops. Let\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s hear what Archbishop Rowan has to say to us. And if and as we make difficult decisions, sometimes perhaps not in agreement with each other, let us do our very best to comply with our Lord\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s instructions.
\nJesus shared his Last Supper with the one who would betray him and the others who would desert him, and then he went to the cross for them \u00e2\u20ac\u201c and us. And he said, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Love one another as I have loved you.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d
\nMy love to all of you,
\nJohn W. Howe <\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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