The Duke University incident

The Duke university sex scandal had nearly come to an end. It wasn’t pretty. One of the Lacrosse students, Reade Segilmann, issued a statement. Perhaps, despite everything that was so wrong about the whole incident, something good will come of it. If the students and everyone else involved will be able to come away from this with the same kind of attitude as Segilmann’s, perhaps redemption is possible.
From Segilmann’s statement:

This entire experience has opened my eyes up to a tragic world of injustice I never knew existed. If it is possible for law enforcement officials to systematically railroad us with no evidence whatsoever, it is frightening to think what they could do to those who do not to have the resources to defend themselves. So rather than relying on disparaging stereotypes, or creating political and racial conflicts, we must all take a step back from this case and learn from it. This tragedy has revealed that our society has lost site of the core principle of our legal system, the presumption of innocence.
For everyone who chose to speak out against us before the facts were known, I sincerely hope that you are never put in a position where you experience the same pain and heartache that you have caused our families. While your hurtful words and outrageous lies will forever be associated with this tragedy, everyone will always remember that we told the truth, and in the words of Abraham Lincoln, “truth is the best vindication against slander‘. If our case can bring to light the some of the flaws in our judicial system as well as discourage people from rushing to judgment, than the hardships we have endured over this past year will not have been in vain.
As the healing process begins for our families, I feel as though it is my responsibility to create something positive out of this experience. During my time away from school I got the chance to learn a lot about myself: Who I am and who I want to be. This case has shown me what the important things in life really are as my entire perspective on the world has changed. I view this situation as a unique opportunity to make a difference and I know that there are many people who can benefit from the lessons I have learned.
I fully intend on continuing my education and look forward to pursuing the goals I have set for myself. I have the deepest appreciation for my educational and athletic opportunities and my dream is to return to both by this fall. My ultimate aspiration moving forward, is to live a life that will make all of those who stood by my side throughout this injustice, proud to know that they defended the truth.

First Communion

I am in Ohio this weekend for my nephew’s first communion. It really wasn’t his “first communion,” that happened in The Episcopal Church, where he was baptized. Now, he is going to a Roman Catholic school and participating in the Jesuit parish church, so the need for his first communion. It was good.
There was a reception for family and friends at my brother’s and sister-in-law’s house afterwards. Lots of people. A whole slew of kids below 10 and most below 5. Uncle Bob (that’s me) is not used to being around so many kids for such an extended period of time. I had a lot of fun and the kids were great, but man does all that energy wear one out. As all the parents will say, “We’ve learned to tune it out.” Oh, well, good for that, but I am yet to learn that particular skill.
Here comes my nephew down the stairs. He is 3 and about the cutest little guy you could imagine!